Episode 12: “Big Emotions, Tiny Fists,” Strategies for Dealing with Toddler Aggression
Toddlers can go from happy and playful to punching or hitting without missing a beat.
So what do you do when big feelings merge with lack of impulse control, and a toddler gets aggressive? In this episode, we answer a listener question that invites us to explore this very topic.
Takeaway points from today include:
"My toddler is usually wonderful! Why do they suddenly get so aggressive?" (Hint: They’re normal!)
Sometimes being happy is as much of a trigger as being angry.
Redirect and distract, when you can!
Be clear when behavior is harmful or dangerous. Otherwise, wait it out until they can really listen, and validate a child's feelings.
It's normal to feel overwhelmed, disappointed, or angry. Let your child know that!
Avoid trying to reason with a toddler mid-meltdown.
A simple "No," without further explanation isn't effective in the long term for toddlers
Support your toddler, and give them other outlets for their emotions.
Apparently, Dr. Val harbors a fervent dislike of participation trophies.
...and much, much more!
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